She Chooses. He Pays

A woman can say “I don’t want to be a mother.” She can also say “I’ll give birth and raise the child alone.” Or “I’ll give birth, but he’ll pay.” Or “I’ll get an abortion because I don’t want this kid.” All those options belong only to her. Her body – her choice.

And okay, we get it. It is her body. She’s the one who will carry the pregnancy. She’s the one who’ll give birth.
But when one person’s choice determines the next 20 years of someone else’s life – it’s no longer just “her issue.”

Because both agreed to have sex. Both went into it willingly. We’re not talking about rape or coercion. This is about two adults who made a mutual decision to sleep together.
But once a pregnancy happens – only one side holds the power.

A man may want to keep the child – she can abort.
A man may not want a child – she can give birth and force him to pay.
A man might not be ready – it doesn’t matter.
If she says “I’m keeping it” – his life just got rewritten for the next two decades.

And even if years later it turns out the child isn’t his – there are real cases, especially in the U.S., where men were still ordered to pay child support despite a negative DNA test. Why? Because the court said “it’s in the child’s best interest” or “too much time has passed.” And the woman? Zero consequences. Even if she knew he wasn’t the father.

That’s not equality. That’s not justice.
That’s a system where one side has the choice – and the other only has the bill.

But this isn’t about blaming everything on women.
Because men need to take responsibility too.
Not by paying support – but by avoiding the situation entirely.

If you’re a man – wear a condom.
Buy them yourself – from a pharmacy.
Don’t trust that “she has one” or “it’ll be fine” or “we’re adults.”
You’re not, if you’re panicking afterward about a pregnancy.

Don’t think with your dick – think with your head.
Because if you don’t – the system will crush you.

And sure, sex is easier for women.
She can be average, even unattractive – just a wink or smile and a guy will follow. Why? Because men run on testosterone. They want it. But women get to decide who gets in the bed.
So if you decide – be aware of who.
Not just for pleasure. For consequences.

Because one wink, one night, one missing condom – can turn into 20 years of trouble.

And then again:
She chooses.
He pays